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Saturday, February 25, 2012
Swag Alone Won't Keep Her
What ever happen to finding Mr. Right or Prince Charming? Well okay maybe they don’t exist anymore but there are some good men still floating around out here just waiting to be found just like you or someone you know. Women have really dropped their standards just to have a man, meaning they will settle for less because they don‘t want to be alone. Whatever happen to finding a good man who will at least pull up his pants or maybe dress nice to meet your parents? Ladies whatever happen to finding that role model to take around your kids or someone who can set an example around them. Nowadays women are dating men who act just like their children, they just haven’t grew up yet.
The luxury of being a writer is that I come in contact with so many people all over the world. I hear some women say that they just want to find a father for their kids. Well here’s something you might want to consider, you just might get someone whom may cause way more stress then your kids. I understand wanting two parents in the home because I myself was raised in a single parent home. But my mother did the best she could with what she had and I’m thankful for that. I had a friend who was raised with both her parents in the home and it wasn’t all peaches and cream. When I see a couple that has been together for twenty years or more then I think to myself, that must have took hard work and dedication. I see relationships that end so fast nowadays people are giving up on their family’s like it’s nothing or the thing to do. I’m not saying stay in a marriage or relationship if you’re unhappy but what I am saying is take your time and don’t play into the statistics. Just because someone in your inner circle got married and at the wedding you was all teary eyed and felt it was now your time is playing into the statistics. God may not be finished with you yet, he’s still preparing you for your prince charming. Just be ready when he arrive.